April 1, 2026

Why You Keep Choosing the Same Painful Relationship in Love -Sheleana Aiyana

Why You Keep Choosing the Same Painful Relationship in Love -Sheleana Aiyana
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In this episode of The Brave Table, I sit down with Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman, bestselling author of Becoming the One, mother, and relationship expert whose work has helped millions heal attachment wounds, reconnect with themselves, and create healthier relationships.Together, we explore the hidden ways childhood wounds, nervous system patterns, self-abandonment, and attachment styles continue shaping our adult relationships.From heartbreak and divorce to motherhood, self-trust, boundaries, and healing, this conversation is a masterclass in remembering your wholeness.This isn't about becoming someone new.It's about coming home to yourself.WHAT YOU'LL GET OUT OF THIS EPISODE...✨ Why you keep attracting the same relationship patterns✨ The connection between nervous system regulation and healthy love✨ How childhood wounds show up in adult relationships✨ Why chemistry doesn't always mean compatibility✨ The truth about self-abandonment and red flags✨ How attachment styles affect breakups and healing✨ Why grief can become a doorway to transformation✨ The practice that helps you reconnect with self-trust✨ Motherhood, identity loss, and finding yourself again✨ What it really means to become "the one"CONNECT WITH SHELEANA AIYANAInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/risingwoman/Website:https://risingwoman.comBook:https://www.amazon.in/Becoming-One-Transform-Relationship-Patterns/dp/1797211676Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a bestselling author, teacher, and relationship expert helping people heal attachment wounds, reconnect with themselves, and create conscious relationships. Her work blends somatic healing, spirituality, nervous system regulation, and inner child work.This Episode is Sponsored by Chai Tonics🌸 This Women’s History Month, celebrate your circle with the gift of ritual, buy 2 Chai Tonics and get 1 free. Spread the love, share the pause, and sip slow together at https://bit.ly/chaitonics.Discover which chai blend matches your vibe with my FREE quiz:⁠ https://chaitonics.com/pages/chai-quiz Breathe better with JASPR🌿 Spring cleaning starts with your air. Protect your home with JASPR and get $200 off with code BRAVE at https://jaspr.co/brave, because caring for your people begins with the space that holds them. Support your body with REJŪVMy go-to science-backed red light therapy for faster recovery, reduced soreness, and deeper repair. Try it today with code BRAVETABLE: https://werejuv.com/?ref=NEETABHUSHANIF THIS EPISODE RESONATED, CONTINUE LISTENING:🎙️ Episode 157: Signs of a Dysregulated Nervous System & How to RegulateApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/157-signs-of-a-dysregulated-nervous-system-how-to-regulate/id1608226580?i=1000626930630🎙️ Episode 149: Emotional Hygiene: How to Repair & Be with Your Emotions When They Get Out of ControlApple: https://www.thebravetable.com/149-emotional-hygiene-how-to-repair-be-with-your-emotions-when-they-get-out-of-control-with-dr/🎙️ Episode 246: Parenting Plot Twist: Your Kids Can Help You Heal Generational TraumaYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CDwwUWRVywFollow along for more tips, community, and resources to brave a better you!IG / https://www.instagram.com/neetabhushan/ IG / http://www.instagram.com/thebravetable TIKTOK / http://www.tiktok.com/neeta.bhushan WEB / https://neetabhushan.comDr. Neeta Bhushan is a 5x award-winning author, emotional health advocate, and host of The Brave Table podcast. CEO of Highest Self Institute and author of That Sucked, Now What, she’s been featured in Forbes, ABC, and more. A former dentist turned global speaker, Neeta’s work blends psychology, ancient wisdom, and resilience from her own life experiences. She's also a mom, wellness lover, and chai enthusiast.🎙 Subscribe to The Brave Table for conversations around healing, growth, family patterns, purpose, and living bravely.